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Offline nossi

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So my 8 wo DD is on a 2-3 hours EASY and falls asleep independently for her naps (for the last week or two).  She takes about 4-5 naps per day, as the morning is 2 hours, but the others can be only 1 hour.  But she's always had a fussy time in the evening.  She started just falling asleep at the breast and I would lay her in her crib asleep and she'd stay asleep for several hours.  She currently wakes usually once (sometimes twice) a night.  But I often now intentionally BF her to sleep only when she's going down for the night.  I don't mind it now, esp b/c it's more pleasant for me than standing over her crib trying shush pat (which makes her madder).  But I do keep in mind Tracey's advice to proceed as you mean to go on, and I was quite faithful with independent sleep when DS was small.  But I didn't have to do that much training to get her to sleep independently for naps - I just kind of waited until she was older and she seemed to do it on her own.  Before that, I would often AP for naps.  So I'm wondering if she'll do the same at night in the next few months as she gets better at soothing herself.  She's comforted by sucking, so maybe she will find her thumb like DS did when he was 3 mo.  What do you think?  Am I going to seriously regret this or should I just relax?

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Re: Do you think it's OK to BF my 8 week old to sleep only at night?
« Reply #1 on: October 30, 2012, 03:13:42 am »
At bedtime, I think it's okay :)  She's still so little, so as she gets older you can build in a bit of cuddling time and books or songs or whatever you want before you put her down.  It doesn't sound like it's a prop.

And during the middle of the night, yeah, definitely just feed to sleep.
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Re: Do you think it's OK to BF my 8 week old to sleep only at night?
« Reply #2 on: November 01, 2012, 06:51:25 am »
No advice as I am new, but I just wanted to say its good to hear your story.  I am just starting and my daughter seems to be doing well with the daytime routine and the sleeping independently in her naps using the PUPD method.  Not mastered night times yet, but she comes into bed to feed, feeds falls asleep and I pu her back in her cot.  I think it's ok during the night and maybe for going to sleep at night.. But like I say am no expert.  Sounds like you are doing great which is good for me to hear as it encourages me to keep going!  Thanks!  Donna x

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Re: Do you think it's OK to BF my 8 week old to sleep only at night?
« Reply #3 on: November 02, 2012, 18:32:45 pm »
I agree many people get away with feeding to sleep at night and at NFs if they are hungry. I think the problem come when LOs get fed at every NW just to get them back to sleep and then it becomes a prop. At this age you probably don't need to worry about it too much as most NWs will require a feed. If you can foster independent sleep or at least going down in the cot less than fully asleep for most naps then that is good going for 2mo.
I fed both of mine to sleep sometimes in the early months but there came a time when they finished the feed and weren't asleep and then I did shh pat or similar. HTH.
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Re: Do you think it's OK to BF my 8 week old to sleep only at night?
« Reply #4 on: November 03, 2012, 03:34:22 am »
I fed both of mine to sleep sometimes in the early months but there came a time when try finished the feed and weren't asleep and then I did shh pat or similar. HTH.
Yeah, that's true.  I guess this begs the qualifier that if the NWs are a reasonable amount for the LO's age and they are going right back to sleep, then feeding to sleep isn't a prop.
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Re: Do you think it's OK to BF my 8 week old to sleep only at night?
« Reply #5 on: November 04, 2012, 03:17:38 am »
Thanks for all the input, ladies!  I must admit, though, that it is getting a bit tough this last week to take so long to get DD to sleep at night.  I can literally set her in her crib completely wide awake during the day for naps and she goes down easily, but she simply won't go to sleep at night unless I've nursed her or she falls asleep on my chest.  I think I may just wait a few more weeks until she's 3 months and see if she finds her fingers and if that helps.  She is definitely trying to suck on her fist.  I'm torn because I don't feel like I have the energy for sleep training at night after putting my 3 year old to bed, but I am getting a little sick of spending 1-2 hours in the room with her at night!  And I'm also remembering to be thankful for good daytime sleep :)