J is normally a great eater - but last 2-3 weeks she has had molars coming through, a sickness/diarrhoea bug and now a cough and cold, and has been refusing pretty much all 'main course' options I offer. She will occasionally take a bite or two, then sign 'enough' and gets very upset if I try to offer more. She will however happily eat cheese, raisins, yoghurt, fruit and cereals. I've never wanted food to become a big issue so if she's clear she doesn't want any more, I've been taking it away and offering fruit or yoghurt as I would normally after her first course. Part of me says this is normal because she's still not 100%, but just a little worried that I'm reinforcing the refusals and creating a bad habit......tell me I'm doing the right thing?