Hi. My DD is 6 months old, and just started learning how to crawl about a week ago. Since then she's been extremely clingy during the day, which is making it tricky to get her the time she needs to practice crawling so that it doesn't interfere so much with her sleep. She's been having a terrible time napping (up on all fours in the crib, can't settle, and waking early from naps wide-wake and alert), but when I bring her out and set her down she fusses until I hold her. I'm guessing maybe she's having some separation anxiety?
The real trouble has been how it's interfering with our night sleep. Just a little bit of background: we've been using pat/shh and PUPD for the last month and a half or so and she's been doing pretty well with it, but up until that point she was a little nursling who nursed to sleep for every nap and night sleep. Naps have always been a battle, but she had just gotten adjusted to a 3.5 hr EASY, and we were working on stretching her A times to 2.30 from 2 hrs. (with 1.5 hr S's during the day), and dropping her CN. She was JUST starting to make some progress sleeping longer stretches at night (like 4ish hrs at a time, which was a huge improvement!). But the last few nights she's been up multiple times in an hour, and when my DH goes in to calm her down (which is how we were doing the night weaning in between feeds), she SCREAMS at him like he's pulling out her finger nails!! It's a very angry cry and almost like her hunger cry? but I'm not sure it's hunger (unless she's having a growth spurt simultaneously which would be just dandy). The very first night this happened went like this:
Last feed - 6pm
BT- 6:30
NW - 8:30 (pat/shh)
E - 9:30pm
NW - 11pm- (attempted pat/shh, screaming very angrily and wouldn't settle for DH, I went in and tried to calm her with words and then nursing and she would not settle for anything!)
S - 12pm (finally brought her to bed, and she nursed for a bit very aggressively. listened to lullabies until fell asleep. slept 5 hrs stretch!! first time that's ever happened.)
Since that night she's been waking early on in the evening WAY more than usual (about an hr after we put her down) and wanting to nurse, but then really upset, even on the breast which is really strange for her. We've now had to bring her to our bed 2 more times which is stressing me out because it's super hard for me to get any sleep with her next to me. She had been seeming to sleep better in our bed and we were entertaining the idea of co-sleeping for half of the night (whatever works!!), but then last night was awful. She woke 3 or 4 times screaming for the boob! And because she's so OT by the end of the day lately, she's been going down around 6:30 and waking by 6:15 which feels ridiculously early. She's also had a small fever the last 3 days and we're pretty sure it's because of teething, which could also account for the more frequent nursing and clinginess and restlessness. Basically we're a giant mess right now!!!
Would love any thoughts on this ladies! Or just encouragement about how to live through the separation anxiety! This morning my DH let me sleep and he said she was a mess. Wouldn't eat breakfast, fussing and looking for me the whole time. How long will this last?!