hugs honey, I hope that whatever you choose to do works for you!
I really missed my traveling when Nick was so little, he just was not a flexible sleeper, and tbh, he's still an early bird AND a night owl when we travel, so I'm usually exhausted! But, those moments of seeing him really connect with family this year have been worth it,...so far.
We are traveling on Sat night and staying over my dad's, so he'll be up to 10PM even with melatonin and up at 6AM raring to go! eek.
Hang in there, and I hope you have a happy New Year's with no stress!