Hi
Thank you!
Umm, I'm really not sure what is going on at the moment and if she is ready to be moved to one nap or not.
So for two days in a row she had a 5 hr morning A time and I'm wondering if she needs this now after an 11hr night. The first day she fell asleep before her nap on the bottle and the second day she fell asleep in the car, so perhaps his may not be the best indication of if the time is right for her, however she took a long nap on both days, in fact I had to wake her on both occasions after 1 and a half hours. After the first day, there were no early night wakes during the following night (before 12 am) and she did actually sleep and woke herself refreshed at 7 am (for the first time in weeks!!) This was after an 8 pm bedtime, which she went down for without a problem. However, during the night she is still waking for a bottle so there is still some waking and I can't remember if she went back to sleep straight away or not, if not straight away it certainly didn't take long. I want to start to think about weaning her from night feeds but perhaps need to sort out her EASY first.
The second day, again she went to sleep at the 5 hr mark, after an 11 hr night. However, perhaps the following night was affected. As I said in my previous post, she had got into a state at bedtime and actually didn't have her night bottle, so at 11 pm she woke and I fed her. She went back to sleep straight away after draining a bottle. Then at 2 am she woke again, I gave her another bottle which she drained. I then heard her at around 5 am but she went back to sleep on her own. At 6 am she woke and I went into her, she was standing in her cot and I didn't feel I could get her back to sleep so we started the day today at this time.
So today, she had had a 10 hr night with some wakings and an early start. She seemed tired in the morning but managed. At 4hr 30 mins, she gave me all of her tired cues and I put her down in her cot. She did cry a little but she was asleep 3 mins later and slept for 1 hr 30 mins (she woke naturally). Our day was really wonky though due to the early start and she catnapped in the car from 4:10 - 4:40. I did actually still aim for an 8 pm bedtime. I know it was a long day for her (6 am - 8pm), but I felt so nervous about getting her down before 8 pm as the previous night had been such a struggle. She actually fell asleep on the bottle at 8 pm,but did wake after 45 mins (which she never really does nowadays). I did expect this though due to OT, she settled very quickly though. However, she then woke again 45 mins after her first wake up but I did not need to go in and she got herself back to sleep. So I really think that our wonky day made her very OT.
As everything is so wonky at the moment, I'm just not sure what her needs are right now. I'm aware that for both of the times she went to sleep after 5 hrs, these were not times when I got her down independently in her cot and perhaps it would have been a struggle to do this?
Ugh, just not sure what to think right now. I do feel that with her routine as it is, I can't get her down to bed earlier. Maybe with less sleep during her catnap I could though, but I'm still not sure what to do about her A time in the morning. Any further thoughts?