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Re: 25min naps-need advice quickly please!xxx
« Reply #30 on: January 30, 2013, 18:16:41 pm »
What time was WU and nap?

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Re: 25min naps-need advice quickly please!xxx
« Reply #31 on: January 30, 2013, 19:31:11 pm »
Woke at6.35am.nap was at11.20 until1.40.she fell asleep
at6.10pm.anyone want to take a bet on her
sttn?! ;D






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Re: 25min naps-need advice quickly please!xxx
« Reply #32 on: January 30, 2013, 22:49:12 pm »
I vote that she will STTN but will be up with the birds tomorrow.  You put her to bed too early ;)  I would have pushed BT to 7pm.



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Re: 25min naps-need advice quickly please!xxx
« Reply #33 on: January 30, 2013, 23:00:52 pm »
Really?!man,im getting this all wrong!
Thought cause she napped 20mins less&that she was
rubbing her eyes that she needed EBT?






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Re: 25min naps-need advice quickly please!xxx
« Reply #34 on: January 30, 2013, 23:08:05 pm »
LOL!  These kids are a mystery at times ;)  I always held BT 5 hrs after wake up from any nap of 2hrs + ... and I would try for 7pm if I could!



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Re: 25min naps-need advice quickly please!xxx
« Reply #35 on: January 31, 2013, 06:29:51 am »
Kara,i usually love it when you're right...not this time though!
Awake full of beans at6.05am!






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Re: 25min naps-need advice quickly please!xxx
« Reply #36 on: January 31, 2013, 21:01:00 pm »
ok...so she did a 1hr55min nap today at CM's.
please help me make a plan for DH tomorrow!!!
we did a 6am-6.35pm day.
assuming she STTN, WWYD?her A time at CM's is 4hr 45mins...






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Re: 25min naps-need advice quickly please!xxx
« Reply #37 on: January 31, 2013, 21:55:19 pm »
I am happy to be dead wrong in this case!

I would try the same A time (dad's tend to be far more fun than us moms are ;)  ).



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Re: 25min naps-need advice quickly please!xxx
« Reply #38 on: February 01, 2013, 05:55:03 am »
Up at5.45am.ugh.
That makes an 11hr sleep.
Crikey-it's getting earlier&earlier!it used to be 7.40am when
she would wake when we were on 2 naps,those were the
days!






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Re: 25min naps-need advice quickly please!xxx
« Reply #39 on: February 01, 2013, 16:37:16 pm »
So DH put her down at 10.30.she slept 65mins until 11.37.
He tried to put her down again at3pm but she just rolled
around the cot apparantly!he took her driving&she finally
slept at 4pm!was that 1st nap OT or UT?!






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« Reply #40 on: February 01, 2013, 16:44:19 pm »
I reckon more likely OT or discomfort, though could be less stimulation than she gets at CM?

How long did he let her sleep at 4pm?  If you have days like that I'd limit it to 20 mins or I'd expect BT antics......

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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #41 on: February 01, 2013, 16:48:19 pm »
I think 40!im hoping to push her WU a bit later cause we are
getting earlier&earlier,so dont mind a later BT.she's
not making up for lost sleep during the night,so it gets
steadily worse during the weekend  when she's home with us.






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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #42 on: February 01, 2013, 16:59:40 pm »
Update!DH just rang-she woke herself after 40mins at 4.40.
When would you do BT?she was up at 5.45am this morning&
we are hoping to get a 7am-7pm day going at some stage!






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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #43 on: February 01, 2013, 17:13:34 pm »
I don't think J would settle any earlier than 3h after a nap that long, though that makes it a very long day :(  That's why generally I'd try to limit a second nap even if the first nap wasn't that great.  You could try for 7pm and hope she's tired enough from the long day?  Do you get EWs with UT at BT?

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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #44 on: February 01, 2013, 17:21:08 pm »
Um,i dont know!it was all so perfect before this mess
started that i just dont know what to do!we were doin
a 13hr day when she was on 2 naps.