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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #45 on: February 01, 2013, 18:16:04 pm »
I feel your pain honey - (((hugs))) - and it wasn't even perfect here before we hit this mess!  Not that I'm any expert at sorting this out, but I generally have found that keeping the day shorter with either one nap and EBT or two naps but limit one of them to a really really short CN seems to keep the OT to a 'manageable' level.  The long days are what seem to tip us over the edge.
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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #46 on: February 01, 2013, 21:15:57 pm »
I hear you!but DD just doesnt seem to tack on sleep to
night-times.anEBT means an early WU here,it seems.she
felk asleep easily at 7.15pm.v long day though,you're right.
Not sure how to approach tomorrow.perhaps set naps are worth a try?
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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #47 on: February 01, 2013, 21:19:27 pm »
Quote from: *happy* on February 01, 2013, 21:15:57 pm
anEBT means an early WU

This was us until I cut that second nap and didn't allow a CN at all.  Regardless of nap length.

Our worst day was this:
wake 620
Nap 1050-1210
BT 640.  Sucked!

It only took 2 weeks of really being strict with nap and BT to get sorted here though...
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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #48 on: February 01, 2013, 21:24:31 pm »
So would you suggest doing the set nap then?
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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #49 on: February 02, 2013, 06:00:18 am »
If naps are becoming a battle ground with no good long naps consistently, yes.
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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #50 on: February 02, 2013, 07:27:13 am »
Hmm,see,she's doing great naps at CM's!so i guess we'll
 stick to counting A time for now.we had a NW at 5.20 but
thank goodness she resettled.starting to wake now...
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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #51 on: February 02, 2013, 11:10:55 am »
she dozed until 8am, so here's yet anothe q for you ladies....it's just me & DD for the day-not v exciting!would you do her usual 4hr 45min A time (that she does in CM) or push it out a bit?
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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #52 on: February 02, 2013, 14:23:50 pm »
We did 4hr50mins A.
She is awake,rolling around the cot after 1hr20min nap.
Woke at 2.15pm.
Am i right in thinking there's no point doing a 2nd nap?
When would you do BT?
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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #53 on: February 02, 2013, 14:56:52 pm »
just thinking....before, when we got 1hr 20min naps, it meant i needed to increase A....does that same rule still apply when on one nap?
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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #54 on: February 03, 2013, 06:25:58 am »
Could be OT... it's all really rather odd during the move to one nap... generally a nap under 2 hrs is OT, but if she had a really good night and was just chilling with momma, it could be UT too.  Clear as mud?

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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #55 on: February 03, 2013, 07:04:04 am »
Just to add to the mud, we've definitely had both UT and OT 1h20 naps......if she woke cooing and had quite a chilled out morning I'd probably lean towards UT but wouldn't add much in terms of A.  Maybe 5-10 mins or try for an active morning as best you can - climbing stairs, crawling, walking with hands held etc?
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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #56 on: February 03, 2013, 13:56:58 pm »
Ok,so she seemed super tired this AM,so i put her in
at 4hr30,15min early.she woke-sort of-at 35mins&again
at the 60min mark.not upset&it's been 15mins now.
Would you try a quick 20min CN?
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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #57 on: February 03, 2013, 14:48:09 pm »
I'd probably still push on through to EBT...unless you can get a quick CN in about 3h and not make the day too long?
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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #58 on: February 03, 2013, 19:25:12 pm »
we were out & she fell asleep in the car!usually, she wakes the second you stop the car, but this time, we turned off the ignition, opened the seatbelts, the doors, the boot...the works!!!!& still not a stir out of her!!she really is so OT at this point.ugh.finally woke her at 25mins at 5.30pm & DH is planning on getting her into the cot at 7.30pm.she has her vaccination tomorrow morning, so between that & the shoddy naps we've managed to give her, i'm dreading leaving her with the CM!
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Re: 2-1 transition going wrong!
« Reply #59 on: February 03, 2013, 22:56:10 pm »
Had a NW 1hr after she fell asleep-v rare for DD.woke
crying hard,but resettled back to sleep v easily.x
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