Hello all!
My DS is 16 months old and eats pretty much the same meals as my DH and I. At daycare, he'll have whatever's on the menu without any fuss.
My problem is that he's started saying 'no' and shaking his head whenever I start coming in with a spoon. He hasn't even tasted anything yet! He'll even do that with his favorites.
My DH was feeding him the other night and DS was wailing and trying to get away from the spoon ("No, no nononononono!". My DH said: "But you love (whatever it was)" and took the opportunity to quickly get the spoon in his mouth. DS, enjoying whatever was in the spoon, stopped fussing and started eating calmly.
Now, I'm not 100% convinced that forcing the spoon in is the best way to go. Even if he end's up eating. Doesn't this encourage this kind of behavior? What do you guys think?
I also want to add that if what's being pushed into his mouth isn't a favorite, he'll just spit it right out.
I thought that he was maybe acting this way because he'd rather hand feed himself out of tray, but if I put food down, he'll end up either trowing it off the tray or playing with it. I'll clean everything up and give it another try with another food. No dice. Apparently at Daycare, she has no problems getting him to eat whatever she puts in his tray.
I'm thinking that either we've enabled this behavior, or he's really not hungry in the evenings?
What do you guys suggest??? I'm so afraid of encouraging negative behavior with him! Supper time has quickly become a stressful, unpleasant time... Except for the dogs, of course. Can't say they have any complaints with the flying food! ;-)
Any feedback would be super appreciated.
Thanks a bunch! :-)