Hi Kara,
We are just back from our two week holiday in Spain. The good news is Daddy did alternate BT nights and she went down fine for either of us,
The main issue was keeping her asleep. Woke twice a night for a fortnight ( with the exception of two nights where she slept 12 hours).
She was generally waking at 11pm and 3/4am and would only settle with a bottle.
So I have a great suntan which is thankfully hiding the bags under my eyes

How does her being UT at bedtime affect the nights? Trying to work out if it is that, genuine thirst from being in a warm place, hunger or teeth?
Back home yesterday and she was definitely tired enough at BT. Had 7/8 oz at BT but woke at 1.30am and did 6oz, then woke at 5am but I ignored and I think she resettled. Then woke properly at 6.15am
Hope you are well?