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Re: Crying
« Reply #120 on: April 15, 2013, 15:10:46 pm »
Well done hun. Your LOs are lucky to have you working so hard for them.
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Re: Crying
« Reply #121 on: April 15, 2013, 17:39:09 pm »
Great work!

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Re: Crying
« Reply #122 on: April 15, 2013, 18:40:48 pm »
You're doing so well :-*
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Re: Crying
« Reply #123 on: April 15, 2013, 18:54:34 pm »
Your inspiring honey. :-* your just doing amazing!
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Re: Crying
« Reply #124 on: April 15, 2013, 19:28:08 pm »
You're doing so well!!
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Re: Crying
« Reply #125 on: April 17, 2013, 20:54:57 pm »
You really are super mom!  So glad about her growth!!  Hw is your recovery?  Dont forget to take care of yourself first so that you can care for your dd's.  Hugs and :-*



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Re: Crying
« Reply #126 on: April 19, 2013, 12:37:20 pm »
So update.  Last night for the first time I did not pump after her night feedings b/c she was pretty much up ALLL night with gas and after the 1 feed where I should have pumped she put herself back to sleep so I just crawled into bed.  We are 5 weeks today and I'm hoping to make it to 8 weeks but I don't know if I'll make it do to sleep deprivation and the fact that I hadn't pumped in 12 hours and yes I was engorged but I still only got about 3-4 ounces.  So still plugging away but still so awfully tired.  On a funny not dd1 now pretends to pump milk for her babies when I pump for her sister b/c according to her that's what mommy's to do :)



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Re: Crying
« Reply #127 on: April 19, 2013, 14:17:11 pm »
Oh, bless her - and you for trying so hard.
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Re: Crying
« Reply #128 on: April 19, 2013, 14:46:16 pm »
dd1 now pretends to pump milk for her babies
So cute!
You are doing so well.


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Re: Crying
« Reply #129 on: April 19, 2013, 17:23:05 pm »
Oh, bless her - and you for trying so hard.
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Re: Crying
« Reply #130 on: April 19, 2013, 18:06:14 pm »
*hugs* They all said what I was going to ^^ :)
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Re: Crying
« Reply #131 on: April 28, 2013, 19:56:51 pm »
So we are at week 6 and we have hit the growth spurt where we are eating every 2 hours and the only way we sleep during the day is to be held, I have a love hate relationship with my pump more hate then love at the moment.  I am only pumping 3 times a day and I am slowly watching the supply dwindle and to be honest I'm just plain tired.  I get angry every time I pump b/c I wanted so bad to breast feed and its not working.  I think this is the end for me.  Going to go down to 2 times a day and then see what happens.  Thank you for your support and information. 



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Re: Crying
« Reply #132 on: April 28, 2013, 20:06:03 pm »
You've done so well to get this far! I'd be asking (if that's ok?) whether it would be worth just stopping?
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Re: Crying
« Reply #133 on: April 28, 2013, 20:12:48 pm »
Big hugs.  You're trying so hard and are giving your new LO the absolute best start.  Every drop is great x
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Re: Crying
« Reply #134 on: April 28, 2013, 20:38:52 pm »
You've done SO brilliantly!
When I stopped I'd kind of hoped (with consultant advice and support) that I could keep 2 pumps per day going, but I think that only lasted a couple of days before my milk dropped so dramatically that I was faced with the decision to go really full-on to get the supply back up or just stop. I was annoyed with the whole thing and felt awful.  What you need to remember if/when you stop for good, no matter how sad or angry you feel about it, is that you have done SO well, and that you will have more time and energy to give a different sort of attention to your LOs.
Big hugs, it's hard. Big big hugs xx