Hey, Yes, I've been trying to distract her with favourite toys etc but she gets quite upset sometimes. She's quite a determined little character!
Yes, I think you are right about the nights. I used toBF her to sleep when she was little then when sleep issues started at about 3 months I realised a few months later my fatal error! Thats when I found out about the Baby Whisperer and I had to do PU/PD at about 6 months to get her out of the habit. Since then things have got better/worse/better (its been a very bumpy ride! She was settling herself for naps and bedtime until a few days ago, but I think its probably because we have been on holiday and I fed her to sleep on the plane as it was my only way of calming her down.
I have felt for a while that the nights are still bad (waking anything between 2 and 6 times a night at the moment) because I still feed her when she wakes in the night. I had wanted to gradually phase it out when she started sleeping more and only waking for 2 feeds a night but now I feel that it won't get better without cutting out night feeds all together.
So she doesn't fall asleep whilst feeding her anymore but I certainly think that in the middle of the night it calms her down and helps to make her sleepy again. Possibly I've given on occasions and fed her more then I think I should as I'm so tired.
Do you think I should just cut the night feeds all together? I know it will be hard and worried it will take a long time to sort itself out. We're currently doing gradual retreat to help her settle when she wakes.
Thanks