Hello again,
well I've been concentrating on sticking to the Easy routine and extending her A times, this is what the last few days have looked like:
Saturday:
W 6
E 6.45
A
S 8.30-10 (woke happy)
E 11
A
S 12.30-1.30 (woke happy)
E 2
A
S 3.50-4.20 (woke crying)
A
E 5.15
S 6 (resisted for 30 minutes)
Night wakings: 7.30 (sh/pat), 10.05 (BF x 1). 12.30 (BF x 1), 2.40 (sh pat), 3.15 (BF x 1), 6-6.30 ish
Sunday:
W 6-6.30 ish
E 7
A
S 8.30-10.15 (woke happy)
E10.30
A
S 12.30-1 (woke happy)
E 1.15
A
S 3.10-4 (woke crying)
A
E 5.20
A
S 6.10
Night wakings: 7.30 (sh/pat), 9.20 (BF x 2), 10.50 (sh/pat), 12.40 (BF x 1), 3.40 (BF x 1 + sh/pat+pu/pd), 6-6.30 (ish)
Monday - this morning:
W 6-6.30 (ish)
E 6.40
A
S 8.50 - 10.10 (woke happy)
E 10.15
A
S 12.30- 1.10 (woke happy)
A
E 2
A
S 3-4.45 (woke crying)
A
E 5.45
S 6.30
Night wakings: 6.45 (sh pat), 8 (shpat), 8.45 (sh pat/ pupd), 9.45 (BF x 2), 11.30 (shpat/ pupd), 1.10 (shpat/pupd), 1.30 (shpat/pupd), 2.10 (BF x 2), 4 (shpat/ pupd for 30 minutes), 6 (BF x 2), 7.45
As you can see the A times have got a bit longer, typically 2.15-2.30, although this still doesn't always guarantee a longer nap (but more often than before). Also, she usually wakes up crying after her afternoon nap regardless of how long it was - confusing! This morning all went to pot as i was so tired after last nights lack of sleep i fell asleep feeding her lying down, doh! Yesterday seemed like a pretty good day in terms of routine and naps etc, she was a happy girl all day until she woke from her nap, then was pretty grumpy all evening until she went to bed, and then woke up repeatedly all night! I don't get it, what did we do wrong???
Other information that might be useful...
Naps - I tend to AP her to sleep for naps, using the pram and white noise indoors, or by taking her for a walk int he pram outdoors. I have tried putting her down for naps in her cot a few times and it's pretty hit and miss whether it works, and half the time i give up after 15 minutes of screaming and AP her to sleep as she hardly cries at all when i do it that way.
Night time - My husband usually puts her to bed at night and puts her down awake after the bedtime routine so she can fall alseep on her own. this worked really well for a while but now she moans a lot and usually he has to go back up and settle her again at least once at the 45-60 minute mark using sh pat and pupd.
I have to keep telling myself that however awful the nights are, at least she doesn't have to sleep in our bed anymore and she is able to settle herself sometimes which is a big improvement to the baby who would only be nursed/ sung and rocked to sleep and would only sleep on us/ in bed next to us a couple of months ago!
Please help!
x