My man knows a 10 year old who still relies on a white noise machine to get to sleep but part of me thinks that surely if it just used when she has worked herself up into a tizz it is better that than me offering the breast which really cant go on forever for obvious reasons...I am still resisting as can imagine its a very slippery slope. Have you any opinions on this?
I would say that's most likely the exception rather than the rule.
. Both my kids sleep with white noise (small desktop fans in the corner of their rooms), and I do think it helps. It doesn't seem to be a prop for either of them. We usually take at least one with when we travel, but have forgotten on occasion and they are still able to sleep. We've also had the power go out a couple times, once right before DD was going to sleep at BT and she did just fine without it, so I'm not worried. There are LOTS of moms and kids on here that use white noise.
You don't have to do PUPD at that early NW if you don't want to. In fact if she's really trying to settle and likes it even worse if you pick her up, I wouldn't even suggest it. Just do what you can to help her settle in the crib. But, if you're not there yet, that's ok! And if you're ever worried about her not getting enough to eat, I don't think that natural little cluster feed will hurt. It may turn into a prop, but you can deal with that down the road. It may not too!
Keep up the good work!
I noticed violet has better am naps if she does down around 1.5hr after waking up - I know she's supposed to be up for 2-2.5hr but its really pushing it because she yawns and rubs her eyes after about 1hr 15min! But the rest of her A times are around 2-2.5hr... trying to figure out if this is unusual or not?
I wouldn't say it's typical, but there are some sleep people who think going down shortly after waking in the morning does help them sleep better. The thing you'd need to be careful about it some LOs I'll start waking earlier and earlier if that A time isn't long enough and you'll end up with an EW issue.