So my ds has never stn but we have finally gotten down to just 1 waking. However, it is usually 1+ hrs to get him back down. His schedule is as follows
Wake 7:15/7:30
Nap 9:15-10
Nap 1-3
Sometimes he falls asleep otw home, like last night we were out and he slept from roughly 5:15-5:35
Bed 7:5/7:30
I know his first A time should be longer, but the babysitter doesn't have a better time for him to go down (it's an in home Ctr and she is limited on where she can put him with the other kids) plus she is trying to shorten the am nap until he just needs 1 nap. Part of me suspects that he may be ready for that, but he isn't en close to making it until his pm nap.
He is on 3 solid meals plus snack and gets a bottle before every meal and bedtime. He goes to sleep on his own at daycare and sometimes for naps at home, but when I lay him down awake he screams bloody murder until I pick him up. I will not do CIO, although I will let him cry for 10 minutes or so, it's just hard to listen to bc he gets so worked up and angry.
Our problem is between 3-5 am he almost always wakes for 1.5 hrs or so. I give him 2 oz which he usually takes and I've been giving Tylenol bc he seems to have teeth coming in but I've thought that for weeks now and he has nothing showing. Sometimes he will just babble for a while until he gets sick of it then cries, other times he wakes up screaming. I always wait until its a real cry to go in. He always lays awake for a while and is sometimes really restless, like smacking at my face or pulling at my hair and shirt. Not angrily, just fidgety. I lay him down and sometimes he will quiet down but I hear him moving and talking. Then it starts all over again, until he finally falls asleep and I can lay him down for good.
Any thoughts on this? I know he needs to go down awake, which will help, I just dread doing it right now. I'm a teacher so once I'm out for the summer I will work on that but these NW had gotten better but now they are super long again. Please help!!