She was 14weeks yesterday. We really are all over the place but this is an example of our easy..
E- 7am
A
S-8.30 (between 30 and 90mins)
E 10 (if she only had 30min then she is tired at this feed and so will have a nap after her feed)
A
S-11.30 (again, can vary between 30-90mins.)
E-1.00 (perhaps sleep again if had another short nap)
A
S-2.00 (very rarely get to this time as naps all over the place. Will let her sleep until 3.30 (usually 3) at latest regardless of nap history)
A-3.30
E-4.00
A
S-4.30 (always really fights this nap so often ends up only having 30mins. latest i will let her sleep is 5.30)
E-5.30 (tanking up)
A Happiest of the day. i wonder if it's because she's fed so often at this point...?
6.30 bath, song etc.
E-7.00pm bed
E-10.30 dream feed. usually 1oz of bottle then i breastfeed
This last week has been awful with her waking at 2.00/2.30 for a feed and then again 5.00/5.30 then again at say 6.30. Last night i shhh'd her back to sleep at 2am without a feed (quite easily) and then she woke at 3.10 anyway so that makes me think she genuinely is hungry at night. But then her 5something feed is often not very good and neither is her 6/7am one. She's going only three ish hours which is killing me. How similar do the times need to be for it to be a habit and not hunger? Within half an hour?
She has previously been waking at 3 something and then sometimes going until 7 but that has happened far fewer times than the above. I feel like I'm always making excuses for her- growth spurt, cold, jabs, teething?, but the bottom line is that she's feeding like a newborn.
She's ebf (wont take a bottle still) and i don't feel she has full feeds. I have plenty of milk but she only feeds for 10mins and will cry at the end of some feeds but wont latch back on to feed and once i stop trying to feed her more she calms down and seems settled for a short while. I struggle to get her to three hours for her next feed (especially if she's tired due to rubbish naps!) and i have no idea how I'll stretch her to four hours soon. When she was weighed last week she had dipped slightly off her percentile. I'm seriously thinking about switching to bottles as I'm convinced she doesn't drink much
I shh pat her until dozy and once she's stopped crying and fighting she goes into her cot dozy and settles herself off to sleep for her naps. At night i put her down swaddled but awake and she goes off to sleep herself.
I'm just so confused as to what to do to help her. She's pretty grumpy now in the day and i wonder if i demand fed her she'd be happier but i really dont want to fall into that trap.
Sorry for long post. Thank you so much for reading x