Most of the time she just won't latch. If I try without the paci first she just moves the nipple around in her mouth or chmops down on it, she doesn't do any sucking at all, just kid of plays about with it, or tries to suck but just can't get it. Then she takes her paci and sucks on it like she wants to get food out of it, and when she spits the paci out I offer the bottle and she latches on.
Sara - yes, she has a particular spot that she likes to have her bottle and I try to keep the lights low, but if they are too low she thinks she's going to have to go to bed

The worst is when she's tired or overly hungry, but it's definitely a problem with most feeds. DH and I wondered about the bottle aversion thing because we're just now finding the right formula for her, but we didn't know if they could make those sort of associations at this age.
There are a couple more bottles I can try with her, but at this point I'm not optimistic, lol. The other option is to try the faster nipple, but she's already using a level 2, and there's only one more level to try...we kinda want to hold off on going up to level 3 because once she decides the level 3 is too slow there's nothing else we can do. She is a very big baby so I guess it's a possibility we need to go up on the nipple size. We did try the bottle that is the same brand as her paci, but it didn't work well for her. Should we try going up a nipple size?