Hi,
We're having problems again with our spirited/touchy boy
We are about to go overseas for 3 months, and have moved in with my parents for a while before we leave. We have had lots of problems leaving DS since he was about 18months, but had got to the point where we could leave him and walk out and he would fall asleep. The first few nights at my parents' were fine, but he has since started really resisting BT.
We have tried staying in his room with him, thinking he just needed a bit more security with the changes, but now even that's not working. He will scream and cry with us in there, if we do wi/wo he won't settle when we go back in, he will just keep screaming if we don't pick him up. Last night the only way I could get him to lie down and relax was to hold his hand - but I couldn't keep that position as he's in a portacot and it was really uncomfortable. Does that mean separation anxiety?
Any ideas? I really want to get this sorted before we go overseas - it's such a time buster at the moment!
Here is our routine:
7am WU
12:30 put into bed for nap - on a good day is asleep at 12:50
WU usually 2:20, will wake by 2:30 if not.
5:30 dinner, bath quiet play
7pm go into bedroom for stories and in cot at 7:30, he was falling asleep by 8 before we moved.