Hi
So, the last couple of days have been a bit crazy. I increased her awake to 3hrs20-30 on Friday based on recommendations and it has gone terrible. The first day I put down at 3hrs25 and fussed but took only 5 minutes to fall asleep and she slept 53 mins and woke happy. The pm nap I put down at 3hrs31 and she fussed and cried by fell asleep in 6 minutes but only for 25 minutes. I did keep her up a little bit longer just in case she did a short nap we could put her down at 6. There was no way though that she was going to make it 3 hours until bedtime so we did a catnap in the car and put her down to sleep 13 1/2 hour day. She woke after 38 minutes then was able to settle herself to sleep for a 3 hour stretch followed by a almost 7 hour stretch. We haven't had a 7 hour stretch in nearly a month!
Sat- am nap put down at 3hrs30. She cried/fussed for 5-8 minutes then put herself to sleep and woke crying 25 minutes later. PM nap put down at 3hrs30 (again kept her up a bit in case of short nap early bedtime- total backfire) and she slept 23 minutes and woke crying. I assume both naps were OT? Short naps, waking crying, crying/fussing quite a bit when put down, etc.
Sun- AM nap put down at 3 hrs25, fussed for 5-8 minutes then went to sleep and woke 25 mins later crying. We left her for a bit all the days but no falling back asleep. About 2 hrs after am nap she fell asleep in the car for 40 minutes, woke (I think the car door opening woke her) then 15 mins later fell back asleep for about 28 minutes. She has NEVER done that. Since we were completely off schedule then we did an early car ride again and she fell asleep 2 1/2 hours later in the car.
I assume she is exhausted if she has been sleeping so much and after such short awake time in the car. The last couple of days we have had to do a 3rd cat nap in the car and she usually falls asleep in after 2 hours awake.
I am soooo confused about her awake time. She has been getting a little fussy in the am before 3hrs30 and I have been so tempted to put her down but am trying to give the 3hrs20-30 a chance. Her first day with 3hrs25 was a decent nap but the last 2 days have been 25 minutes and crying!
The PD at night has been going well. She has been waking only once at night which is great. It has taken anywhere from 15-50 minutes to get her to fall back asleep but it's definitely an improvement from waking 3 times a night. She definitely cries out in her sleep lately but seems to be able to for the most part put herself to sleep. She is doing longer stretches which I think should be helping with her OT but doesn't seem to show it yet. She use to average 10.5 hours of sleep a night (in a 12 hours cycle so with all wakings taking 1.5 hours on average. She now has been averaging 10 hours of sleep because we have had to do the 3rd cat nap so she has been going to bed after at least 13 hours up. She also has been waking up earlier than usual- 6-6;15.
So, some improvement at night but now the naps are insane. Help!
Thanks!