I am back, so sorry it took me so long to respond! My DS is going to be 9 months on Friday (can't believe it), and we are still at 2 NWs. We had about two weeks of 1 NW around 4:30am and a couple STTN when he was 8 months, but then all of the sudden he went back to where we were before. You were absolutely right and he did go from the 2 NWs to 1 completely on his own, which is why I hesitate to sleep train, thinking there may still be a possibility of him dropping one of these NWs. Right now, I am feeding at both (which is SO bad) because it's the only way I can get him to settle back to sleep. I'm pretty sure we have a MOTN prop issue, but he is sleeping independently for his naps. Here is our current EASY:
E 6:30 BF (both sides)
A solids at 8:30/9 (yogurt and 3oz apricots)
S 10-11/11:15 (we were at 4hr10min A time, but have scaled back b/c he has been SO fussy in the mornings around the 3hr mark. I don't think this is the cause of the NWs because the NWs happened before I started pulling back on A times, but I'm not ruling it out)
E 11 BF (both sides)
A solids at 1/1:30
S 3/3:30-4/4:30 (he seems to handle 4hrs of A time in the afternoons very well, so sometimes I will push it past 4 hrs)
E 4:00 BF (both sides)
A solids at 6:00 (4oz veggies and 3tbsp rice cereal)
6:45 w/d bath, pajamas, nurse
S 7:15
NWs around 2:00am and 5am
He has 4 teeth (top canines and bottom middle teeth) and I'm pretty sure the top middles are on their way as well. I have given motrin, thinking the NWs are discomfort, but the motrin seems to have no effect on them. He is crawling and sitting up, but not pulling himself up yet. The NWs started about 3 weeks ago.
I'm worried about the breast being a prop during the night. I have found that he will eat very well if I let him stay on the breast for a full feeding, but if I pull him off after only a minute or two and pat him on the back while on my shoulder, he will settle right back to sleep. This makes me think he's not really hungry, just looking for comfort. I don't think I will be able to sleep train without my DH b/c as soon as I go into the room, he expects to be fed. Shh/pat no longer works, picking up seems to make things worse, so we are thinking of trying PU/PD, but are hesitating whether to start if DS is going to drop the feedings on his own. I think if we do PU/PD, we are going to wean him from both feedings so we don't confuse him by feeding at one NW but not feeding at the other.
Any advice you can offer would be wonderful! I know the breast being a prop is completely my fault and I've let it go on for too long, but with teething and illness and everything else, it's so easy to fall into!