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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #15 on: June 26, 2013, 18:31:47 pm »
What Shivi said :)
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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #16 on: June 26, 2013, 18:51:13 pm »
Agree that I'd wake for feeds but in terms of routine what you are doing seems fine lovely. If he's happy to be awake for 2 hours and then feeds again before he sleeps you are still fitting the feeds in. But if you are finding you are getting huge stretches of sleep in the day then yes you do want to shift them to night xx





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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #17 on: June 26, 2013, 18:58:18 pm »
Ok, I will definitely wake for feeds, although we are getting the decent stretches at night too - he generally does 4 hours between feeds at night, I think last night was a bit longer after cluster feeding.
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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #18 on: June 26, 2013, 19:00:10 pm »
Sounds like he's doing great. It is ok to let the odd nap run over. Especially if you are in the middle of something with O!





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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #19 on: June 26, 2013, 19:12:06 pm »
Or in the middle of a box of chocs or something.....
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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #20 on: June 26, 2013, 19:14:34 pm »
Or in the middle of a box of chocs or something.....
Of course! Priorities and all!!





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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #21 on: June 27, 2013, 15:25:56 pm »
He's struggling to poo :( is there anything I should be doing to help? Should he have water or anything?

We had a rough time a couple of nights ago where he was up from 4am grunting and clearly in pain, he was trying to go but couldn't, he wouldn't settle and only did do once he'd managed to go several hours later.

I was up with him from his feed at 1.30am this morning until he finally went to sleep at 4am but was then up again at 5.30am. It was the same situation. He's done a tiny bit since but nothing like he would normally have done and is still clearly uncomfortable.

It's not a major issue as he is still going regularly enough, but he's not going as often as he needs to and is in a lot of pain.
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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #22 on: June 27, 2013, 15:35:04 pm »
As long as the poops are soft, try not to worry. It's pretty hard to poop if you've not had a lot of practice. You have to tense your abdomen and loosen your bum hole, both at the same time. It's tricky. Plus it's a new sensation, so all the grunting and grimacing, crying and straining, is all normal as long as the consistency of the poop is good. Obviously if it is hard, or mucousy, then you need to talk to the Dr.

My HV used to advise a tiny sip of freshsqueezed orange juice, or a few grains of brown sugar dissolved in warm water, to get things moving... I must say though I could never quite bring myself to do it, and 'things' always resolved themselves in the end. A warm bath often helps too, perhaps some (clockwise) tummy massage before hand, too.  :-X With Audrey we used to call this 'the yellow bath'.  :-X :-[





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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #23 on: June 27, 2013, 15:46:53 pm »
Yes I have been doing clockwise tummy massage but didn't seem to help. Will bear the orange juice etc in mind, but I'd probably feel like you and not want to give him anything.

He has just been, thankfully. It's always very soft, in fact very 'watery' - can it be too 'soft'?

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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #24 on: June 27, 2013, 16:59:41 pm »
For the first little while they're often just like yellow cream or something which just soaks straight into the nappy. Takes a little while before it thickens up.





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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #25 on: June 27, 2013, 18:27:08 pm »
You could try bending his knees up to his tummy as well as the tummy circles.  Baby massage can work really well for getting things moving (as witnessed in a class where the poor woman opposite me ended up with her nice white skirt covered in baby poo!)
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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #26 on: July 02, 2013, 05:59:35 am »
Ok, we seem to he over the poo issue, but the last few days he's been being very sick after his feeds - shaft would make him suddenly start being so sick?

He's very windy in general and was being quite sick until I started using colic drops. They were really helping until now.
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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #27 on: July 02, 2013, 18:40:53 pm »
Could be a few things.  Obvious ones would be simply wind/immaturity of the valve at the top of the stomach; reflux; fast flow.  Or any or all of the above.

Anything else other than wind and sick?
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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #28 on: July 02, 2013, 19:14:36 pm »
I should probably keep this all in one place, I have a CRC thread and have asked the same question there, I think it might be reflux....

Re: Reflux, colic and/or intolerances - what are the signs?

Quite a bit of crying after feeds, hiccups, squirming, back arching.
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Re: Cluster feeding, dream feeding, and 'routine'.
« Reply #29 on: July 02, 2013, 19:21:09 pm »
:(  You keep on getting some help with the reflux stuff over on CRC :-*
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