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Re: Never able to get out due to breastfeeding... getting stir crazy
« Reply #15 on: July 18, 2013, 02:58:39 am »
Thanks that is reassuring - I thought I had to try to push her feeding times but she just seems hungry!  She only has a 4am night feed and no dream feed so I hope I am doing ok with every 3 to 3.5 hrs. 


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Re: Never able to get out due to breastfeeding... getting stir crazy
« Reply #16 on: July 18, 2013, 08:37:51 am »
3-3.5h is fine for an EBF baby at this age - some just don't make it to 4h before they are on solids x

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Re: Never able to get out due to breastfeeding... getting stir crazy
« Reply #17 on: July 18, 2013, 12:55:45 pm »
Thanks jessmum - we will probably start solids next month.  Then we will try for the 4 hr easy.


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Re: Never able to get out due to breastfeeding... getting stir crazy
« Reply #18 on: July 19, 2013, 07:54:20 am »
You may need to think about the routine......a standard 4h EASY is an appropriate routine for a four-month old, not a six-month old.  Most at 6 months will be headed towards 3h A time and two naps.  If you need help sorting it out do feel free to post on EASY :)

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Re: Never able to get out due to breastfeeding... getting stir crazy
« Reply #19 on: July 19, 2013, 12:07:45 pm »
I'm sorry I meant a true 4 hour easy in regards to the eat part.  Thanks!


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Re: Never able to get out due to breastfeeding... getting stir crazy
« Reply #20 on: July 19, 2013, 14:04:05 pm »
Hi there,
I had my lo on a 3 hour schedule at 5 & 6 months.  I work part time so we do use the bottle but mostly breast feed.  As far as getting out, I usually took her with me.  Nap in car and if easier feed in car then go about my business.  If I wanted to leave without her and didn't want to do the bottle(had some clog duct issues) I would feed her then run out for an hour or two while someone watched her.  Also I noticed the late cat nap I had to cut off at 30 minutes, any longer effected her night sleep.  My lo also cluster fed in the evening.  The last couple feeds were two hours apart.  I should note I never did a dream feed, I went outside the EASY box and had her fall asleep on the breast for her last feed.  (but put her down quickly) Hope you get a chance to get out.   

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Re: Never able to get out due to breastfeeding... getting stir crazy
« Reply #21 on: July 19, 2013, 18:03:38 pm »
I'm sorry I meant a true 4 hour easy in regards to the eat part.
They really do need to go together - if you try to feed on a 4h schedule then you will struggle with getting decent naps.  Let me try and explain - let's say LO needs 3h A time and you want them to eat on a 4h schedule, this is what would happen:

WU and E 7am
A
S 10am aiming for 1.5-2h sleep to be restorative
*CLASH* with eating at 11am
A
S 2.30/3 again aiming for 1.5-2h to be restorative
*CLASH* with E at 3pm
A
E and BT 7pm

If you wake LO to feed 'on schedule' you'll likely end up with a tired grumpy baby who hasn't had enough sleep or struggle with feeds being due when LO is ready to sleep and end up with a feed to sleep prop.

A more typical EASY with 3h A time (assuming LO is now on solids) would be:

WU & E 7am
Breakfast 8am
Nap 10am for 1.5-2h
E 11.30/12
Lunch 12.30/1
Sleep 2.30/3 for 1.5-2h
E 4/4.30
Dinner 5/5.30
E and BT 7/7.30pm

As you can see the times between milk feeds vary, it isn't a strict 4h EASY at this age.  More like a '4h plus' ;). The solids get them through the extra time between feeds.  When you're just starting solids then what some mums choose to do is give a small milk top-up 20-30 mins pre-nap until LO is taking enough solids not to be hungry.

Hope that's not too much info, have just seen so many people get in a bit of a mess with feeds and routine around this age that I wanted to make sure you'd considered what might happen :). Good luck, be prepared to be a bit flexible and you'll do great!  Enjoy the weaning!


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Re: Never able to get out due to breastfeeding... getting stir crazy
« Reply #22 on: July 19, 2013, 18:17:33 pm »
Totally agree with Katherine.

Check out sample EASYs here:

chronological EASY samples, 7-9 months