Hi, today he ended up taking 2 loong naps .. i can def. keep him awake longer but that would mean he would be cranky and sleep longer after. I think he doesn't sleep enough at night, thats why he still needs 2 naps.
My baby doesn't seem to have a lovey although he LOVES his wubbanub pacifier, which is a little stuffed animal attached to a pacifier, I am trying to get him off it though, he gets it only at night and in extreme situations during the day.
The bedtime routine is bath, pj , bottle, play time in his crib (because be HAS to burp otherwise it hurts him, he burps on his own just sitting up for a little bit). I tried to put him down right after a. Bottle he cried in pain, picked him up and he burped.
The tricky parts about having him sleep in his crib in the living room are a few:
1) we cant black out the room (need some light for us)
2) my husband comes back from work late, so the light in the room where the crib is must be on for us to eat at the dinner table (only table in the apt). I have a friend who puts her son down in his room at 7 and closes the door, I envy her so much, her work is so much easier than mine
Tonight my LO fell asleep at 10 pm. My husband came back from work at 8 pm - by the time we ate was 9 pm, LO was in his crib standing up watching us.
By the time I finished I went to put him down, it was 9.20, by 9.30 he was almost asleep, I went to my room to get something, when I came back he was standing up. Room was already dark. I Had to start over. By 10 pm he was asleep.
I dont think this crib in the living room is working out for us,but we have no real choice at the moment ... I think I am better off have him fall asleep on our bed and then move him into his crib, at least that way he was sleeping by 8 pm or so, now my day doesn't end till 10 pm!
I wish, I wish so much we had an extra room