Thanks so much for your help Katherine! I have been viewing these forums for a few years but too shy to post till now.
He woke last night at 10.30pm which I am hoping is due to OT or wonder week rather than a new habit. I fed him hoping he would then go a longer stretch but he woke again at 2 and again at 5 and then started the day at 6 and wasn't hungry so I did the AEAS. I read Tracy said something about getting the calories into day feeds rather than night as at night he feeds so much better so I am thinking of trying to feed him in a more quiet space during the day perhaps. I don't want him to confuse day and night but he's now reached an age where he gets quite distracted whilst feeding (stops to smile at me - I can't help but respond and have some giggles with him- or notices a light or mirror surface etc or stops to listen to DS1 voice) and I am thinking this may have led to doing longer feeds over night.
When should I try to resettle over night? An age/weight or after a certain # of hours?
My DS1 would be dreamfed and then woke at the exact time night after night so I tried Tracy's 3 night dummy trick and it worked so I knew it was not hunger. (He was 4 months at the time).
First S today I watched for his cues and popped him down in the perfect window and he fell asleep beautifully but then at the halfway mark was screaming and didn't resettle for ages. Another question, when you say this age can stay awake 120 to 130, do I start the nap time routine (sleeping bag, swaddle, darken room, white noise, pick up and hold or hold in cot and pat) when he's been awake for this amount of time or take 20 mins off that for the wind down routine?
Re naps it's good to know these might stretch out, I recall DS1 was eventually doing two really goods naps but I cannot remember at what age.
DS2 wakes halfway through his sleep cycle and I can tell he's still tired. Shh pat or PUPD usually work but sometimes I have to resort to pushing him in the pram in order for him to go back down. If it's been around 2.5 hours since last feed I have occasionally just got him up and fed him and then put him down again after a shorter A time. Re the A time, how do you keep the feeds to 3 hourly if lessening the A time after a shortened nap?
I will try bringing the CN and BT forward - I was worried he would be UT if I didn't keep him up for longer.
So, if I do 1.5 hrs (or less if tired) then CN then 1.5 hrs then BT? Also, if I feed when he wakes from the CN and do a top up before bed do you count the top up feed (which sometimes last 30 mins - in dark room with white noise) as A time so should I have fed, bathed and dressed him within the 1 hour after waking from CN and then straight into top up feed and then put down at the 1.5hr mark?
I hope that makes some sense???
Thanks again!
Mrs F (Nicole)