Hi...
The sh/pat does not work (yet anyway) for me... he is swaddled and on his back... he cries louder than I can shush him and patting seems to make him more unsettled...so am not sure what to do there...but I've also read here that some will work on shsh/pat for entire naps? Is that a good option for me to try?
I want to do PU/PD but he is 14 weeks old... I thought that three months was too young for this.
Good to know about the yawning and such... NO - he won't fall asleep anywhere but in my arms bouncing... (Oh, besides the front carrier on walks and again sometimes in the carseat but I rarely go anywhere at this point as his catnaps in the car ruin any good nap.
I do feel like we are at some average A times (or getting close!) But I feel myself getting into his rhythm of things... for example: He has a great first nap and that often seems to be it... the rest of the day is very anxious for me. I will try to be more consistent with his A times though and change it only by maybe 5 minutes a week. Sounds like this needs to be consistent...the A times. Should I shorten his morning nap and still wake to feed at 10 instead of 10:30 and remain on the 3 EASY for now?
when do I know he is ready to transition to 3.5 EASY and then to 4 EASY? I know nothing is cut and dried but this site is a great help! Thanks!
I would love to start sleep training (and this wasn't a problem until about 3 weeks ago and it took us 2 hours to get him down one night instead of the regular 2 minutes) but dont' know where or how to start.
I began today by bouncing him until asleep and then while humming my song to him, I began to pat his bottom with one hand - am hoping to eventually do that more and the bounce less so that when I get brave enough to put him in the crib from the get go, he will already know the pat (except on his chest or belly). Any suggestions for how to start or where with sleep training?
Thanks in advance!