Hugs. Sorry that yesterday didn't go to plan. With regards to settling in the MOTN, does your dd have a lovie or comfort item? What I've started doing with my dd is to pick her up, sing her lullaby and then give her the blanket which she snuggles and then I put her down. Seems to be working out well for nw's (previously I had been feeding her but I'm in the process of weaning). Do you think something like that might work for your dd?