11 mth night waking due to teething ???

[Miraclelim]

Sorry yesterday I did
Wu 0545 didn't pick her up till 0617 when she called out
Nap 0950-1025
Nap put down at 1330 didnt want to sleep till 1350 till 1530
Bedtime 1930 put down at 1910 didnt sleep till 1930

2230 woke up crying went inn cuddle put her down slept then 10mins later crying. Hum her a lullaby didnt pick her up pat her back for a few secs left the room then she fell asleep
This am wakes up at 0530 blabbing in bed. Now it's 0625 n still in bed awake but didnt call for me.

I don't know what to do now with naps today? This 4 days of short am/ long pm hasn't been very nice. She is cranky n not happy even thought she had 1.5 hr sleep in the pm. It's mskes bedtime worse i think NCOs she needs even longer a to bed after 1.5 hr.
Even after 20mins nap she needs at least 3.15to3.5 a time before she will sleep. Any earlier she will just roll around in bed sucking her cloth till asleep.

Help I  am abt to cry!!!! So sorry!!!

[Miraclelim]

Hi I think I am just to tired to figure it out anymore
Today I tried to bring forward am nap
Wu 0530 pick her up at 0645
Nap 0920-0945
Nap 1245 down asleep by 1255-1430
Bedtime aiming for asleep 1830 in bed latest at 1815
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If this doesn't results in later wu after 0600

I think i have to do set nap. Seriously I think I am causing myself grief trying to figure out this a time n 2 naps issues!!

So plan is to set
Wu 0530-600
Nap 11-1300 (+/- 15min depending on wu)
Bedtime 1800 unless wu after 1300 1330 then 1830


I m so exhausted. What do u think?
Thank you

[Layla]

Honestly hun you'll drive yourself crazy if you spend so much time thinking about it  ... try and go with the flow as much as possible. The 2-1 can drag on for a few months. You can try a set nap but just watch out for OT signs and you can always go back to 2 naps if need be. We also had crazy nap days (like 2x40 min naps); super early bedtime (as early as 4.30pm once); super early and ridiculous wake ups until it smoothed out.

When we did eventually drop the morning nap, we started with 11am nap and then slowly pushed it out to 12pm so I think your routine looks good... just as long as its not causing her to get overtired and leading to night wakings

[Miraclelim]

 I have started dd on short am/long pm I now finally understand the trick to that is to have UT first nap I was doing it wrong all this time. So I figure it out this evening she wakes up from her pm nap (1.5hr) at 1430 and bedtime and asleep at 1830. So I am very happy that I can keep her day max at 13 hr (12 fully awake and 1 hr in bed this am before I pick her up to start the day. Thank you so much. I figure if she has EW tomorrow at 0530 she would already have 11hr sleep which I am very happy with.
Thank you Layla and SKadiver13 for all your advices. It all makes sense. You guys are amazing. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart!