Sorry ladies, hadn't noticed you were back on this thread!
You may well be into 3-2 territory KookyK if he's now over 5 months. Have you seen this?
All about the 3-2 transition- 5/6 months. You may be in a very common situation that happens around this age where LO wakes early for the day due to a combination of too early first nap and too short A times, leading to short naps and OT. Its complicated!
So nights look like this:
Bed 6.30-7ish
First feed anytime 10-12
Next feed 3-4 hours later
Always wakes around 4-4.45 resettles fairly easily sometimes with milk
Always wakes about 5-5.30 hard to resettle. Often passes wind and sometimes poos.
6.-6.20 I give up and get up!
Daytime
Nap 8.30 (earlier if we are home on weekend)
Wake 9-9.15
Nap around 10.30 or 11. He wakes half way but I can extend him. He will sleep until about 12.30
Nap 2.30 on school run. Wakes about 3. At home he naps 3pm and I try to extend him til at least 4.
This is what our day started looking like around this age. The advice I followed from ladies on here at the time was pretty much don't start the day until 6am earliest, even if that means sitting holding him in a dark room. And then at 6am lights on, good morning! Make a big show of it. First A time starts from then. Using an age-appropriate average A time of around 2h30 (at least to begin with) that means first nap at 8.30am (or obviously later if he happens to wake later). If he has a good nap, great, do the same A time again before the second nap. If the nap is short, make his A time 15-30 mins shorter but definitely no less than 2h. Same again after second nap. And then a catnap to get you to BT. While the morning WU is so early is it possible for you to move his BT a touch earlier too? I'm thinking more of a 12/12.5h day would be best to aim for, so that's maybe a 5.30/6pm BT. Is that feasible? Hopefully if he is more rested then his WU time will naturally move later, but if not at least you can try to establish a stable routine and then move it forward in increments of 15 mins a bit like DST?
What do you think?