Thank you all for sharing! Her bedtime is never later then 7:15, usually she BF at 7pm and goes down for the night with no problems until 6:40ish sometimes just after 7am. She seems just fine in the morning, with occasional cranky days. She was sleeping close to 3h, but now naps have been varying from, having a very unrestful sleep that involves standing and laying back down while talking for usually an hour, until she just sits on her crib chatting away. Other days she takes a 1 hour nap, others she goes as far as 1:30h naps, and since that has been happening, her afternoons aren't as productive, as she gets tired and upset easily.
I think my issues lays on determining an activity time that will be just enough... it's confusing. My son (now almost 6) use to sleep about 2:30 hours until he was 4.5Y, but clearly they are all different...: /