Thanks shiv
Well after a good rest of day with cat nap and easy bed time they both woke at 9 screaming and showing hunger cues so I fed
I am taking v gentle approach and they had a massive feed so think that it was needed, maybe because they are so used to snacking so changes in th routine to get them to take bigger feeds will take time. Ing hyphen slept til 1, then 4.15 then up at 7 so good. The other woke more but I fed at twelve n three. This is still less than before so thinking slowly does it.
I agree about waking from naps in a general sense but with two it can really throw things off. My thoughts are if it has been more than one hour then I wkl feed the awake one then wake the other and feed them so that they are then ready for a nap again at roughly the same time.
This morning they managed two hours A time and our now snoozing. This is an improvement on the 1-1.5 of before so thinking the next two awake times might make to 2.5 hrs approx. Obviously reading their cues, but as I said with two sometimes one is ready before the other!
On the questions about put up put down this seems to stress them out even more! So thinking keeping up with gentle approach for now and revisit later.
What are thoughts about night feedings. I.e. When they were smaller I would feed both when one woke. I stopped doing that as one twin is better sleeper but what happen is I feed one at twelve, the other wakes at one, then the same at three n four. I don't want to stop the better sleeper but perhaps I should dream feed the better sleeper?
Thanks for all your help and encouragement, I like that people are respecting my methods and giving tips without it being too prescriptive!