It's always something... Here's the new thing. DD is getting close to 21 months. She naps 1ish-3ish, BT is 8:30. The lamp in her room is on a timer to turn on at 7am (working like a dream!) sometimes she calls for me at 7, 7:15 or I wake her at 7:30, which is nice! She has been fighting nap time and bedtime, just saying no, and other delay tactics for a little more than a week. The past couple days she'll nap a little more willingly but at bedtime I hear her playing in her crib until as late at 9:30/9:45pm.
I think she has always been low sleep needs and I didn't know it with constant UT/OT as an infant. She never napped longer than 45 minutes until she moved to 1 nap a day, months before she turned 1. She never STTN until then either. So, should I be waking her from her nap a little early? (I hate doing that she looks so cute all snuggly and sleeping) or just be happy she can play by herself for a while before bed?