I agree totally with milk intake. She was really hungry yesterday and cried an hour after her solids lunch so I offered her milk and she took 4oz, but then it all goes downhill. It just seems if there is any spacing she isn't hungry at the next feed. Well, that's what I was assuming, but it seems she just doesn't really want milk anymore! We had a really bad night as she woke at 9.30, hungry, I made her wait until 10 for the dream feed hour and she only took 3oz which was what she had lacked from the bottle before bed so I needed to get more into her to sustain her through the night but she just would not take it and then would not settle. We tried everything before my husband ended up taking her out in the car. I then tried dream feeding it when she was in bed but she obviously wasn't asleep enough and it woke her and she erupted again!
Today she woke hungry and took 5oz which is good for her. I waited an hour and gave her porridge with the remaining 2oz and then decided to give no more solids for the day, just milk. All other feeds have been bitty and a fight. I obviously don't want to create a snacking habit either I just don't know what to do? Every time she has seen myself or my husband eat she has been rooting for food, in the end before bed she would only take 2oz so I made porridge with 2oz and she was dribbling at the sight of the bowl! Hopefully that will get her through to a deep sleep to give her the rest of the bottle as a dream feed to the sustain her before the dream feed!
As for the getting to bed, for the past two nights I've put her down awake, put the bunny in her hands and my hands on top to keep them from reaching out for me (sob!) and to teach her that bunny is who she should hold (sob! Why is that so hard??!!) and patted slowly until her breathing has slowed and then rolled her onto her back. So far, so good. Does that sound right? Am I not creating more props in doing this?
Thanks so much for all your help, god this is hard!!!