No advice as we are going through the same thing, so dropping off big hugs. I know how you feel, one day dd just said no when we asked her if it was time to nap, when she used to trot off happily to bed! Sooooo my dd only naps twice a week on her 2 days at daycare (peer pressure gets her to nap there I guess!)... or has a cn in the car of an afternoon, she is too tired to stay awake and is a grumpy mess when the car stops (10-15min nap). She is lsn so now gets probably the same amount of sleep per 24hrs as we brought bt back to 6.15/6.30pm when it was 7pm. Do you think an earlier bedtime would suit your lo? We had a few nights of bt refusals but EVERYTHING is no no no at the moment! I miss her nap!