Thank you all. We had a bit of a funny day today as we had to go and visit family. So 2 car naps but reasonably long and reasonable times. C is knackered though, so I have put them down early tonight and will just deal with the fallout. Can't wait for a little rest from them! And she's crying a lot going to sleep so I think it's the right thing. She prob only had about 8 hours last night, so it's hard for her to catch up.
Am going to try to make that feed later and later UB, think that's a good idea. So will try 2:30 tonight. Then if we manage that 2:45 tomorrow, etcetera, and see if we can get them back into deep sleep. It sounds lovely!
C has just screamed herself to sleep. I think sometimes that she just passes out from exhaustion rather than really learning how to go to sleep on her own. I think tomorrow I am going to put them down for their morning nap early just so they really know they are going to sleep on their own in their cots, as I feel like that's part of the problem. And no back rubbing, just firm hand and sleepy words. Deep breaths all round as I am on my own now til Wednesday lunchtime.....