Im just tired, our naps are getting better, but our nights seem to get worse and i cant seem to figure it out.
Lo is 24 weeks, his day looks like this
7.15wu
8.45eat
10.30-12.10 3.15A
12.10 eat
3.35sleep- 4.45 3.15A
4.45 eat
7.45eat
7.50-8.30 3.05A difficulty to settle
9.15-asleep now
We get 5+ wakings and its killing me i cant figure it out.
We sleep trained at 4months and we had a week worth of fantastic nights only woke twice to feed, them he had an ear infection and put night never went back to brilliant.
Lo is breastfed i offer both breasts.
It varies how he wakes in the night, we dont get a stretch longer than 3 hourly, mostly je wakes 2 hourly or hourly! First part of the night he is easy to resettle with shush pat starting from 2 he is very difficult to resettle and will often need resettling on and off every 20 mins between 2-3am then very unsettled usually up at 5 i often feed him them just because im so exhausted.
He doesnt just suddenly wake crying i can hear him stirring and trying to settle himself but he cant and then gets upset.
I use shush pat to settle him, he doesnt have a lovey or any props, not swaddled. He falls asleep himself for naps and recently started sleeping through the 40 mins, but not at BT, we always get the first waking 40 minutes after bT.
Any suggestions are welcome anything less than 4 wakings per night is a dream at the moment.
