I have only started scheduling over the last few days. I made a big mistake of letting her nurse (exclusively breastfed) to fall asleep since birth, she is now five months and I am trying to wean her off night feeds, which is at usually at 3am and 5am, but varies.
She resists her sleep and her nap times, and it takes me a long time to get her to sleep. I used to walk her up and down the passage for up to thirty minutes, rock her, etc. But since reading BW I stopped.
I tried EASY but it is so hard since she refuses to feed in a waken state and associates feeding with sleeping, and will only nurse when she is tired. I was successful in leaving her in the crib, seeing to her and doing PU/PD every three minutes, for about 30 minutes,she eventually gives in to sleep but I end it with nursing as by then she is very hungry since she doesn't want to nurse after she wakes.
Sleeping at 7pm is not an option since dad comes home that time. So at nine I bath her, do an activity at 9:15, then at 9:30 PU/PD until she gives in, and then I feed her to sleep.
How can I get her to sleep without nursing? In the end I do it because she is hungry and had her last feed at the last nap.
Last night I put her down at 10 and then she woke at 11:30 and I nursed her thinking it would prevent a night waking, and then again at 1:30.
At 4:30 I tried the PU/PD but it didn't work, she stayed up until 6:30 when I eventually nursed her to sleep.
Can anyone help me please?