Hi All
I'm not sure where to begin…my son is exactly 4 months old today (Christmas Baby!). After much research and deliberation, and many sleepless nights, about three weeks ago we started him on the 4 hour EASY plan and began training him with PU/PD. It started working almost immediately, in that his naps extended out from over 30 minutes to 1hr30 min, 2 hrs, 45 min (on a good day). However, his night sleep continued to get worse. Where he was only waking up between 12 and 1, and then again around 4, for feeds, he is now waking up at 9:45/10pm, 12, 1, 3, 4, 5, etc…he is EBF and I pump during the day while at work. (Although I don't pump enough for him, so we have been talking about supplementing with formula, today we used the last of the freezer stash.)
We ditched the pacifier during this and he has not had it since. He also just started rolling over from back to front, so we have been trying to ditch the swaddle, with limited success--it works for some naps/night sleeps to just be in a sleep sack, but not for others. He does seem to prefer sleeping on his tummy, before this it was on his side.
He goes to bed between 6:30 and 7pm every night, and about 50% of the time we can leave the room and he puts himself down. He does not yet regularly suck on his hands, only if they happen to be near his mouth. He has a lovey and he sometimes sucks on that. We have had some success with him putting himself down for naps, but more often we have to use SH/Pat and he falls asleep within ten minutes or so. He wakes up for the day pretty regularly around 6:30/6:45.
I would LOVE to cut out some of the night wakings, but I am not sure how to do this, and which one to tackle first. He never woke up around 10pm until a week or so ago, so now I think it has become a habit. I don't really think he is hungry, as he eats for about 8-9 minutes, on one side only, and goes right back into his pack n play. I do pretty good feeding and getting him back down for the other wakings, although by 4am I am exhausted and he comes into bed with us. He then snacks every hour for about 5 minutes before putting himself back to sleep. We want to break this habit.
He is still in our room, as we have been slowly renovating our very old house and his nursery is not ready yet. (We estimate about 3 more weeks.) Has he hit the 4 month sleep regression and we should just ride it out? I don't want him to use me as a pacifier, but I think he is. Plus, I feel like he is now getting more of his calories at night then during the day.
Advice? Thoughts?
Thank you!