Heidi thanks so much for listening to me carrying on about his "routine" (or lack thereof!) I really appreciate it.
Well in terms of what a typical day looks like here's what has to happen most days:
6:30-7:30 am : wake up, get breakfast for kids 1 and 2, brush teeth, change clothes, nag them to eat etc..
7:45-8: get everyone our of the house, .load DS2 (baby 3) in car, load the car with bags, etc
8-8:10: drive to DS 1 preschool, take all kids out of car, and load
back again to go to DD school.
8:10-8:20 drive to DD school
8:20-9: arrive at school, take DD and DS 2 out of car again, drop off DD, stay for reading circle.
9:9:10 back home usually unless need to run errands.
2:30-2:40 load DS2 in car to drive to, preschool first to pick up DS 1.(that means in and out of car)
2:40-2:50 drive to pick up,DD
2:50-3:25 wait till dismissal and load all kids back in car
3:25-3:40 drive back home.
3:45 out of car and back home.
And here is what happened to DS2 today in terms of his routine, and sleeps
Wu 6:20
S 7-7:30 in ergo during older kids breakfast
E ebm bottle at 7:30 before we left
Awake and cried whenever placed in car from 7:50-8:20 during DS1 drop off
S 8:25-9:05 during DD drop off and reading circle etc.
Cried when put from ergo back in car till we got home at 9:15
E bf at 9:20
S 10- 12:40 ( in ergo till 12:20 then I put him down in cot and he woke in .20 mins at 12:40)
E bf 12:45-1:14
Started crying 1:30, tried to get him to sleep, kept crying, fed again at 2 wouldn't settle till nearly 2:20 but woke when I transferred him to car seat at 2:30
Cried and miserable in car all the way till 2:50
S 2:50-3:30 while waiting for DD pick up at school
Woke when transferred back to car
E bf at 3:45 when we got home
S tried to settle for sleep since 4:15, very miserable, fed again at 5:15 then finally slept
5:20- 6:15 in ergo
Woke briefly but continued to sleep in ergo. while I bathed others.
Then I took the whole gang to bed at 6:35, he bf in his sleep while I read to others.
So essentially he went to bed at 6:35, I put him down in the cot at 7:15, he slept till 8:15 woke at bf again, and oddly has been having the best night he's ever had
it's now 10:20 pm and he stirred a bit in the middle but went back to sleep?!
What do you reckon? Poor baby these car transfers are getting him.. And he doesn't settle well for the afternoon nap somehow..