Thanks Nevinsmama! Our routine so far has been go into his room, make it dim. Change diaper and get into PJs. Sing soft lullabies and rock in the chair for 5 minutes (no more than that, we have found he is nodding off in the chair if we stay there more than 5 minutes). When we sit up from the chair he will start wiggling and kicking his feet in protest already because he knows what is coming next. I will tell him "goodnight, I love you, sweet dreams, its sleepy time" and lay him into the bed. Immediately he will flip onto his stomach and start to crawl around and pull himself up. I will pick him up and lay him down and repeat, repeat, repeat. The first day or so he was only sitting back up and I could softly lay him on his side. Somehow he has caught onto that and will try to stand as soon as possible.
My husband is having better luck with putting him down to sleep. He will only protest for 5-30 minutes and with me he will protest for hours. We are still breastfeeding and I am sure that is a huge reason why he protests with me..he can smell his food source and loves his snuggles on mommys chest.
We started the EASY process on Thursday and my husband took off of work the entire weekend so we could tag team help out. Today was the first day at home where it was just me and the two kids. It is not going well. The first nap of the day he protested and screamed and jumped in the bed and I did PU/PD for as long as my three year old would let me, which was about 20 minutes.
Out of desperation and frustration at the situation I decided we would take a car ride to grab some lunch that way at least my son would get a nap in without me holding him and my daughter could enjoy some scenery besides the house.
We are getting ready for nap number two and thankfully my daughter will go down first and then I can focus on the nap time with my son.
At night he is still waking every hour or sooner. I feel like our progress is going extremely slow. When he finally starts to settle in (with sobs and heart sluffs) we have to keep our hand on his side until he is almost asleep or he will jerk wide awake, scream, and pull himself up and start the entire process all over again. Its so defeating to almost have him asleep after being screamed at for an hour only to have your arm make popping nose and startle the baby and start the mad cycle all over again.
I can try extending his A time longer, but at the three hour mark he already looks so tired and will yawn, rub his eyes, and tug on his ears (doesn't have ear infections, just a sign that he is sleepy).