Thanks for all your encouragement. While last night was far from perfect, it was a little better as we got a solid six hour stretch (10:30-4:30). He fussed off and on in his sleep but did fall back asleep without us going in during that stretch. 6:30 to 10:30 and 4:30-6 were different stories, but he peed out of his diaper at the 4:30 wake up so I'm sure that's why he woke.
I think we do need to commit to not holding him, I just don't know where to start. We are already so exhausted and he absolutely resists PU/PD and shush pat. For S/P, he just rolls to his belly and fusses. I know that it will work if we give it time, but I'm so afraid of making him absolutely miserable and OT.
Here's how yesterday went:
WU/E (bottle): 6:48
E: (solids) 7:15
S: 9:50 (fell asleep independently and slept thru)
WU: 11:07
E: 11:15 (bottle), Solids: 12:30
S: 2:14 (fell asleep on his own,woke up at 40 minute mark, held him for 10 minutes and fell back asleep)
W: 3:55
E: (bottle) 4 p.m., Solids 5:30
Bath: 6 p.m.
Bottle: 6:17
Asleep: 6:25
Today followed a similar pattern except he woke up an hour earlier. I was able to stretch his A times to 3 hr and 15 minutes for the morning and 3 hr. and 7 minutes for the afternoon. (He was seriously overtired for the afternoon nap.)
WU: 6 a.m.
Eat: Bottle: 6:15, Solids 7:10
S: 9:16
WU: 10:41
E: (bottle) 10:45, Solids 12:20
S: 1:51 (woke up at 45 minute mark, held him and tried to put him down very drowsy but awake. Woke up. Held him again and put him down very, very drowsy (almost asleep) and he slept thru nap.
A: 3:50
E: Bottle, 3:54 Solids 5:30
Bath: 6:15
Bottle: 6:35
Asleep for the night: 6:53 (fell asleep independently after I left the room)
Does that seem like it's an improvement? To me his feeding schedule is a little wonky, but he will not eat if I feed him more frequently that 4.5 hours.
Speaking of feedings, he is eating SO much better than he was just a few weeks ago. I was having a hard time getting 22 ounces in per day. Then, he voluntarily dropped his dream feed (wouldn't take more than an ounce so we gave up), and we decided to stop his 4-5 a.m. feed. I think that really helped him with his daily intake. It's almost as if his body finally realized he wasn't getting enough calories since he dropped the early am and dream feedings. Do you think the sudden change in feedings is contributing to this? I didn't think anything of it since he was eating so much more all together (and since he dropped the dream feed on his own) but I'm suddenly wondering if it's a food issue now.
Again, THANK YOU SO MUCH!