Before i did give her pacifier, put music on and did stroke her head, she went back to sleep. A lot of times she also screams till i pick her up, we go to my room and she is not sleeping for sometimes one hour, she lays still between us, when i see she is falling a sleep she goes back to her room. So before she was much more easy to resettle, now she sometimes want me to pick her up.
I really don t see a connection with her day sleep. Sometimes she sleeps 1. hour and 30 minutes, other time only 1 hour, this with different nights. The last week she did refuse 2 times to sleep in the day. She really was exhausted at the and of the day. Really did not know what to do. But anyway this was only one time.
I now that sometimes she sleeps till 8 because she is catching up sleep. Normal if she now awake at 6 she is tired. Every day i pick her up at 6 put her in my bed, but she does not sleep.
This does not mean she sleeps longer in the day. Again i don t see a connection. Most of the time she does sleep good til 12 in the night, between 12 and 6 is mostly when she wakes. Sometimes 4 times i give her pacifier and she goes back to sleep, sometime she is awake 1 hour and she is in my bed. I then try to put her back when i thinks she is calm to sleep. She wakes crying. Sometimes she crying very soft and she goes back to sleep on her on.
But my problem is that we don t see a connection in her sleep. I do see she is tired also at night, she is not awake because she has to much sleep. I don t believe this, she also does not sleep much in the day to have this problem at night. If she sleep like 1 and a half or longer in the day and good in the night i do have a much happier child. So yes i do notice if she sleeps longer. I have the feeling that waking at six for her to soon is, i really think she needs 12 hours at night especially because the day naps is not so long. When we did change to winter time we did lost 1 hour of sleep. So before she slept 12 hours and longer sometimes.
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i hope i will find a solution, because this is so exhausting for us. Its difficult with such a lack of sleep to continue with the day pffff.
Both me and my husband where good sleepers as baby. So it is a surprise why she sleeps like this. I also have good structure in the day and not much stimulation so she will have a calm day. But this does not help.