Ouch that's a tough night sorry Hun.
Do you go in every 2 hrs? Sorry I'm not sure what's happening in the night? Am I right he can re-plug but the dummies are falling out at night? If so, then maybe all you need to do to fix the nights is work out a way to keep the packs in the cot? We have an air-wrap, but you could maybe get one of those lovey's which hold pacis?
I think it's cos there is no white noise. They either have it completely silent which doesn't work for him or it's a sudden noise from the children playing that wakes him. It's also not dark in there. Nothing to be done about it tho. I am bringing them a radio this week to see if they will use white noise there with that. He has done a 40 min nap there once but I think that's the longest he will do at all
This is why I'm too scared to put t into daycare over his nap time - I KNOW he will be the same
Is he there all day? Or can you maybe do a second nap on these days and one nap on non daycare days?