(((Hugs)))
I wonder if it is a case of 'near yet so far' making her so cross
. Especially since you lying with her has resulted in playing, messing and all sorts in the past.
Thing is, even if she is UT, she should be able to lie in her cot, cuddle her lovey and chatter to herself for a bit.
It once helped me to remember that it becomes a battle of wills. I was just about to cave in (with DS who is rather spirited with sleep!), when I suddenly wondered why I was going to? And lose to a 15 month old. It was almost like as soon as I had that thought he started to settle. Must have sensed I was determined
.
I always prefered to ST myself. I think I felt better being 'in the thick of it', but it is obviously different when there is a BFing issue as well
.
Lots of love