I know that they dont mix. I have read both books, and all FAQ on almost all topics.

But I dont know how to be with out it. She still cries a few hours during the day and Ill go coo-coo with out it.
Im getting cold feet now. I dont think I can manage to hear her crying.
I might just try to keep her up as much as possible in the morning so that she doesnt think she can make it up being awake so early with a nap. Ill take her for walks in the sling in the morning and put her down at 10.15/10.30 and then cap the second nap
Aghhh, I hate this. I dont want to hear her cry but at the same time we are all so tiered, including her.
And if she doesnt get enough sleep she is very fussy and cries more and she wants to be held in arms all the time. I feel like Im spoiling her but I also have the poor baby syndrome because she has cried sooo much since she was born I hear her cry and I think (oh God here we go again, how do I get her to calm down now

) oh, my poor baby, she is upset again, something`s wrong with her again.