Help pls :-(

[Miraclelim]

Why is my 20.5 mth old baby wakes up 2-3 times night a week now??? I don't understand?!!! Her canines are all coming out now the bottom are almost all out. I don't think is the teeth that bothers her.
Her routine
Wu 0700
Nap 1-3
Bt 2000

If nw it's always 2ish or 3ish
Then wu at 0730 (I wAke her up otherwise nsp will be late)
Nap 1245/1300-1500 (no more than 2hr)
Bedtime 2000

Help pls

[MasynSpencerElliotte]

Are you medicating for the teeth at all? Has anything else changed that might impact her (my DD3 is having nw's on daycare days, a bit of sa I think!).

[Miraclelim]

Hi I was but I didn't find it making a diff. I think 2 hr nap might be too much for her. Thinking of cutting it down to see if it makes a diff. She has been wKing up at 2-3ish for 2 hrs not wanting to sleep.
I m so tired.

[MasynSpencerElliotte]

Is she fairly happy at the nw? That was always my clue that she was ut!

[Miraclelim]

She would cry for me asking for water then wants me to carry her or go downstairs or watch tv or play peekaboo with me. Which is what makes me think she had yo much sleep during the day.

[Miraclelim]

Ahhhhhhh she only slept 1.5 hr during the day then she woke up twice once at 10ish asking for water n wanting a cuddle so back to sleep after 20mins. Then again at 0320 wanting to come to out bed n play n milk. So gave her some milk then cuddle in bed then daddy put her down n pat pat her for a while. Finally slept at 4ish till 0730 when I woke her up.
I do t understand y....
Her easy yesterday was

0630 wu
1245 in bed slept 1255-1430
Bedtime 1930
Nw10ish 20min
Nw 3ish for 1hr
Wu 0730


Arghhhhhhhh help ... She is blabbing lots now n mimicking us talking. I am wondering if it is developmental!?

[Miraclelim]

Pls help me :-( I m exhausted. She woke up again tonight at 0325 rolling in bed then calling out for us then we just left her n talked to her on the monitor but it didnt work. She slept crying in the end we went in pick her up n out her in out bed gave her milk n she was back in bed trying to sleep now at 0500.

Yesterday easy
Wu 0730 (woke her up)
Nap 1305-1500 (went out so was late putting her to bed then woke her up at 1500)
Bedtime inbed at 1930 asleep by 1945.
Nw 0325 then crying for us at 0415
Pls any idea y???
This is a baby who STTN since 6weeks old. I m so tired pregnancy with no2 . It's killing me. Abt to lose my sanity!!!!!!!

[Miraclelim]

Here we go again. It's 0300 I can here her stiring. I looked at the monitor I could see her sucking her cloth quietly with eyes opening now. Then 15 mins later she called for me asking for water so I went in have her some then walked out. 10mibs later she called for me again. Thinking she might be hot I went in n change her sleeping bag to a thinner one then she insisted on looking for her daddy so we went in out room n climbed in bed n gave daddy a cuddle. We then said night night n I tried to put her to put n she cried wanting to go to my room finally she let me put her in bed then I left the room. 10 mins later she whined n stayed in bed sucking her cloth.

Should I cut her nap further???

Wu 0730 (due to night wake) I woke her up
Nap 1245 in bed asleep by 1300-1435 woke up herself
Bedtime 1920 in bed asleep 1950
Nw 0300

Is our routine wrong? Normally if no night wake nap is 1.5-2hr with a 13hr day
I m thinking maybe she is waking up at night undertired?? I don't know maybe i can try to cut nap to 1hr 15 since 1.5hr makes no diff as she still is having nw?

Pls anyone help me pls I m so desperate. TIA

[lilac83]

Hi, I'm not sure about the routine but could you try leaving a sippy cup of water in bed with her? Tell her if she wakes thirsty to take a drink then go back to sleep?

[MasynSpencerElliotte]

I agree with the cup of water and tbh perhaps you need to be a bit more firm in how you want to deal with nw's...by that age unless they were ill or something if I had to go in to settle I rarely spoke besides a set sleepy phrase and kept interactions to a bare minimum. If she knows getting up and going to see daddy is a possibility then I can totally see why waking at night is kind of fun thing for her...developmental stuff can totally play a role as well. (((Hugs))) at this phase with DD1 when I was pregnant with DD2 I had DH handle all nw's and I wore earplugs as she settled better for him!