(Sorry about this long post, I'm trying to provide all the required info.)
Hi, I posted last week on the EASY board about getting a routine started. Now we're on day 6 of EASY and I'm feeling pretty awful, and don't see a heck of a lot of improvement. The issues are with both naps and night sleep but figured I'd try posting on this board. Our daughter is 6.5 months, a spirited baby I think.
Here is a typical day since starting EASY:
6:30 wake up and nurse, then cereal
A time 2 hours
8:30 Nap - usually goes to sleep unaided. Sleeps 35-45 minutes. PU/PD x 20-30 minutes to resettle. Sleeps another 35-45 min.
10:30 Nurse, then solids - finger foods
A time 2-2.25 hours
12:30 Nap - same as 8:30 nap. Though often takes PU/PD x 5-10 min to start nap as well. Rarely, either the a.m. or p.m. nap will last 1-1.5 hours straight. This has happened maybe 2-3 times since starting EASY, but there is no trend toward overall improvement.
2:30 Nurse, then solids - finger foods
A time 2.25-2.5 hours
4:45 or 5:00 - CN - usually PU/PU x 10-20 minutes to settle, sleeps 30-40 min
A time 45-60 min, bath
6:15 Bedtime routine, usually asleep on her own by 6:30 or 6:45
9:30 Usually wakes. Last night resettled on her own after a couple of nights of PU/PD (so one positive thing.)
10:30 Dreamfeed
Then the nights can be unpredictable.
1 or 2 - wakes, fusses. May resettle on her own.
2:30 or 3 - wakes and doesn't resettle. This is where the drama begins. Need PU/PD x 30-60 min to resettle. Then until about 5:30 wakes up every 15-30 minutes and needs resettling with PU/PD or soothing talk/hand on bum. Sometimes really gets going with the screaming, other times more fussy. Has a lovey. No pacifier, no swaddle, those were weaned at 4 months.
5:30 - goes back to sleep with above methods, sleeps until 6:30.
Background info - until starting BW she was nursing fairly predictably at 1 and 3:30, then often waking at 5 and we were doing controlled crying. These wakenings were very habitual since age 4 months, so figured result of accidental parenting rather than actual hunger. Now since starting EASY, I have a very hard time figuring out if she is hungry in the early morning and that's why she can't resettle longer than 20-30 min. It doesn't sound like a hunger cry to me, more frustrated, but what do I know.
Since starting 4 hour EASY she nurses around 10 min each side per feed, for total 20 min. We're doing mixed baby-led weaning, so mostly finger foods that she is exploring, and some cereal to get a bit of extra iron into her.
She has cow's milk and soy protein intolerances. Unfortunately this has been difficult to sort out even with me on a strict diet since 2 months. Still has some traces of blood in the stool, though NO obvious signs of uncomfortable gas since she was 2 months. Growth is on her curve. MD has been consulted about the ongoing colitis (bleeding) and we are seeing a specialist this week. I mention this as I do not know whether or not it affects our sleep problems. As I said she has no obvious discomfort and is growing well.
Going on a week since starting the routine, I honestly don't know how long my own sanity can take this. Posting this to see if there's any obvious tweaking that could set us on the right path.