Nickie what worked /or not worked for us/:
- for morning and lunch we feed closer to milk feed or even immediately after, he is happy to eat solids even when not interested in more milk; it also helps when his milk feed is small let say at 11am, than he is hungry at 12 and eats lot of solids, and than he takes another small milk feed at 3pm; so if his milk feed was smaller than normal I offer solids immediately after so he is not full of solids for another milk feed
- cereal for breakfast was a killer for us:/ he wasn't hungry for hours later so I just cut it out and offered only fruits after morning feed and only now reintroducing some cereal for breakfast
HTH