Posting in solidarity! In much the same situation here, only DS always goes down fully awake for naps and BT (feed before bed but wide awake, not drowsy). Now waking 2-3 times a night, actually seems to feed reasonably well most of the time and also feeding well in the day. Does your LO cry properly when she wakes? DS just fusses, shouts and gradually gets louder and louder, sucks his thumb intermittently as if trying to settle but never gets there. Will be interested to see how you get on/share successes if you don't mind?
Kelly how would you go about dealing with the feeds at this age given some NFs would still be normal? Only feed if it's been more than 3.5-4h, otherwise try to settle by other means?