Hi,
I am wondering how to transition my DS from 3 Hr EASY to 3.5 or 4 Hr EASY while in daycare.
My DS is 19 weeks old (born 37w3d) and still exclusively breastfed or EBF. Until two nights ago he was STTN from the DF but since then he wakes 2x-3x per night shouting for attention, not hungry, just wants someone to come say hello, replace pacifier, etc... He is completely capable of putting himself back to sleep when he wakes up in the middle night because he's been doing it for about 6 weeks. (After I went back to work at 12 weeks, I couldn't get up to soothe him back to sleep when he wanted attention vs. when he awoke for a feed.)
Also within the past few days he is not sleeping great at daycare ... only sleeping for 20-30 minutes, maybe 45 at the most per every 3 hrs. A few weeks ago he was napping 45min -1.5 hr every 3 hrs. Sorry for the rambling ... just wanted to give information if needed.
I've been noticing on the weekends that he will stay awake 1:45 to 2 hrs now so am wondering if it's time to transition him. He also has somewhat dropped his 1st morning nap.
I gave daycare a copy of our 3 hour EASY and they stick to the eating times but not so much to the awake and sleep times. But they do still have him on the general E, A, then S routine. I had to give up the control and just hope for the best and it's been going well until the past few days.
Our EASY is:
E-7:00
A-7:30
S-
E-9:30
A-
S-
E -12:30
A-
S-
E-3:30
A-4
S-5:00 (after I pick him up at 5).
E-6:00
A-6:30
cat nap, hang out, etc...
bath 7:30
E-8:00
E/Dream Feed - 10:30
Please let me know if you need additional information.
Should I even try or just give up since I have "no" control over his day four days a week at daycare.
My child is generally a pretty happy, go-lucky, mellow baby. But the past few days he has been irritable, crying over nothing, and just fussy. We did also start physical therapy recently to treat his torticollis. But even at PT he was laughing and smiling (but when he was done, he was done both physically and mentally).
Thank you in advance!