I think that waking after BT falls into night waking so Im posting here. But if its not it can be moved to where it fits best.
I know that waking after bt can mean that she is OT but Ive tried so hard to make sure that doesnt happen and she wakes night after night.
Sometimes she is really OT. She has had short naps or long A time before bt. She wakes after 1.5-2h after bt, id feed her and she goes back to sleep most of the times.
But the last week she wakes up 10-30 minutes after bt and cries. Sometimes it sounds like a mantra cry and I leave her hoping that she goes back to sleep but it usually escalates and I have to pick her up. And I feel so bad listening to her cry, even if its just mantra.
There are times when she just doesnt seems tiered and Ill take her in the living room with me, sit with her and try to put her down every 15 minutes.
I`ve tired so many different things
I`ve tried rocking but she has always hated that. Making bt as early as 6, 7.30..., music, putting my hand on her chest, putting my or dh Tshirt in her cot, bath, no bath, having wind down music an hour even 2 before bt. I know Tracy says be consistent but what worked yesterday its not working today!
She keeps waking. She goes back to sleep at different times, Sunday it was 10!
Im tiered and embarrassed of posting here. I feel like Im occupying the forum. NW, bottle feeding, CRC, solids...Im all over the place.And beyond that, Im starting to feel like a failure as a mum. Naps, nights, feeds...I keep trying and cant seem to get things right for her.
I have been reading, searching an explanation to what is going on and why she`s waking and I dont have any idea
Any thoughts to what might be going on? Or how to deal with it?