I have tried settling without feeding. He has a soother which he uses to fall asleep, but after a few replugs he still is unhappy. Or sometimes it will take me an hour of trying things like shushing, back rubbing, sleepy phrase, etc. and he still is unsettled, so then I try feeding him, which usually does the trick. He doesn't fall asleep with the bottle, so I don't think that it's a prop. I did read a suggestion here on another board about gradually reducing the night feeds, so maybe I'll try that...